Bender, Jeffrey James devoted husband of Sharon Warner Bender, loving father of Joel Bender and step-son Sean (Sandy) Warner, dear grandfather of Shyanne Warner, Shanna Warner and Sean Warner, Jr. Dear brother of Harry (Chris) Bender, Mark (Valarie) Bender and Michelle (Matt) Beard, preceded in death by his parents Eugene and Patricia Bender, he is also survived by uncles, aunts, nieces, nephews, cousins and many friends. Monday, December 27, 2010, age 52. A memorial service will be Tuesday, January 4, 7:00 PM at the Vitt, Stermer & Anderson Funeral Home 4619 Delhi Rd. Memorial contributions may be made to the family for his children.